“You can please some of the people, some of the time.” - Steve Jobs.
You don’t know what you don’t know. And what you don’t know can be some really tough stuff someone else is dealing with.
Related to the above, don’t “give a pass” to obvious transgressions, but people make mistakes. Give space for learning, growth, apology, and reflection.
Exit social media when you want. You don’t owe a “heads up”. You can disconnect whenever you want. You can disengage at any time. And you don’t owe anyone an explanation.
Your presence in social media should not be expected unless you’re being paid to be there.